How To Manifest A Specific Person
How To Manifest A Specific Person:
Do you wanna know how to manifest a specific person? You wanna be loved by someone and it's completely fine
We all wanted a special person in our life with whom we can spend a great time. And we all deserve this kind of relationship where we can live together in a healthy relationship.
In this post, I’ll show you the exact steps you need to take to manifest your specific person. Are you ready to manifest your own love story?
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Prioritize yourself before your specific person
The first step you must follow when manifesting a specific person and how to manifest what you want is to release your limited thinking around the subject.
What do I mean by limited thinking around the subject 🤔?
The idea that this one specific person is the only one for you!
You see, when you have this idea in your mind that there is only one person that can fulfill your ultimate goals and desires you literally cut yourself OFF from receiving someone who is better for you and ultimately for your highest good
For example, You may have a desire to manifest your ex-lover back because you think he’s “the one” when your real soulmate is out there waiting for you.
This is why whenever I am working with someone around this issue I always recommend they start by being open to the idea that, what they think they want, might actually not be what they need.
And what they need, will ALWAYS end up being far more magical than they ever could have imagined!
When you reframe your thinking in this way you can leave it up to the UNIVERSE to decide what is best for you, whether that really IS your ex-lover or someone new!
You have to work on your confidence and let your insecurities go. I know it’s hard, but it’s really important, not just for manifesting someone.
If you want to be treated with love and respect, you have to give that to you first. You are the star of your own show. You are the prize. You’re so amazing that they should be manifesting YOU.
This doesn’t mean you’re being selfish. You can only truly love someone by offering the best you can, which is you. It isn’t the material or external stuff, but your own time and energy.
You have to value yourself enough so that you can give your time and efforts to someone that really deserves it. And you cannot offer someone to drink from an empty cup.
Picture this
When you invite someone over to your home, you try to make it a pleasant experience for them. You clean everything, you prepare some snacks, some drinks and maybe something to keep them entertained.
In this scenario, you are your own home and your specific person is the guest.
Would you invite them to a place that isn’t clean, or when you have nothing to offer? Even if it’s just some company, you want to make them feel good and welcome in your home.
Set boundaries
Once you recognize your value, you have to set some boundaries and raise your standards. And you want to make them clear to your specific person.
You want your home to be a safe place for them, but they must follow your rules to be there. They can’t come and wreck everything. You don’t want that kind of person in your life, do you?
You should only prioritize people who prioritize YOU. If they don’t, show them that you’re willing to let them go. It’s not about threatening them but letting them know that you have your own standards.
If you keep by someone’s side that doesn’t value you, you’re not valuing yourself. If they are damaging your home, and you let them stay, it means you aren’t putting yourself first.
Only allow people in your life that treat you like their number one.
What qualities do you want from your specific person?
Now that you’ve got your standards clear, you can have an idea of what you want in a partner.
What characteristics do you like in your specific person? Or what qualities would you like them to have?
How would you like to be treated by them?
How would your ideal relationship with this person be?
You can write down a list of all the things you can think of. Or you could script in detail about it. Whatever you like the most.
Check out my Scripting guide to manifest anything with your journal.
The key is to fully focus on the positive aspects of them. It doesn’t matter if you already know your specific person or if you haven’t met them yet.
This way, you’re putting in motion the things you want to attract about your specific person. And you’re letting the negatives behind.
How do you expect to feel once you’re with them? Feel it NOW
The next step is practicing the feelings you would like to feel with them. It could be love, security, companionship, whatever you’re looking for in your specific person.
You have to practice feeling those emotions in any way that you can. You must align yourself with those vibrations in order to attract more to those feelings.
If you don’t have that person in you’re life yet, you can find those feelings somewhere else. With your friends, your family, your pets, or even within yourself.
What this does, is placing you closer to your goal. Which is your specific person.
Think about this. If you constantly feel insecure and anxious whenever you think about your person, you’ll only attract more of it.
You can’t control someone else, but you CAN control how you feel. And that’s the easiest way to attract them to you.
Shift your feelings and you’ll shift your reality. It’s that simple.
Start focusing on your new story
Now you know your worth, your boundaries, what you want from them AND you’re feeling exactly what you would feel with them. The only thing left is to stop affirming your old reality.
Stop entertaining it, stop reacting to it. It isn’t important. In your mind, it isn’t even real.
All you need to focus on is your new story. Give your time, effort, and focus to that new story, to that new person.
Don’t resist the old, don’t react to it, just let it go.
For instance, if you aren’t with your specific person yet, stop feeling anxious and sad about it. Just thank the Universe for them being in your life and don’t even think about them missing.
And last, but not least, your words must fit your narrative. Only affirm your new reality. Don’t go complaint about your specific person’s behavior or your loneliness with your friends.
You just have to be dedicated and determined enough to start applying these steps, and you’ll see results!
My experience
As I said before, I did manifest my soulmate and I did so while I was in an incredibly toxic relationship.
In my case, I was manifesting a specific person without realizing it.
I had known him before being together, but while I was manifesting, I did not focus on him. I was focusing on the traits that I want in a partner.
Whether those traits were influenced by knowing him, or him being in my life was a direct result of me manifesting the relationship, I don’t know. What I do know is that I’ve never been happier in a relationship.
By focusing on the traits I want in a partner I attracted the perfect relationship for me: it is never universal. Manifesting a relationship is obviously a very personal process, and the best thing you can do for yourself is focusing on what you want to attract in your love life.
It’s what I did, and I never regretted it.
I hope this article inspired you to research more about how and why you should — or shouldn’t — manifest a specific person, and I hope you’ll be careful about what you attract in your life.
And remember: you have the power to manifest anything.
Which can be both a blessing and a curse.
As I said before, I did manifest my soulmate and I did so while I was in an incredibly toxic relationship.
In my case, I was manifesting a specific person without realizing it.
I had known him before being together, but while I was manifesting, I did not focus on him. I was focusing on the traits that I want in a partner.
Whether those traits were influenced by knowing him, or him being in my life was a direct result of me manifesting the relationship, I don’t know. What I do know is that I’ve never been happier in a relationship.
By focusing on the traits I want in a partner I attracted the perfect relationship for me: it is never universal. Manifesting a relationship is obviously a very personal process, and the best thing you can do for yourself is focusing on what you want to attract in your love life.
It’s what I did, and I never regretted it.
I hope this article inspired you to research more about how and why you should — or shouldn’t — manifest a specific person, and I hope you’ll be careful about what you attract in your life.
And remember: you have the power to manifest anything.
Which can be both a blessing and a curse.
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